This is the post I’ve dreaded to write about because it’s the best and the worst of my affair with Ray. WARNING: this post contains details of a sexual nature.

Monday came round and it was indeed stressful at work and there was a chance that Ray was going to have to cancel because he might have to go to dinner with the boss. Luckily for both of us he didn’t have to dine with our dreadful boss and he picked me up at our usual time after work. It was raining and he decided that we should dine close by in the neighborhood. He parked on the street in a loading zone and I told him he shouldn’t chance it but he debated with me that the place of business was closed so it was okay.

When we sat down he told me about his date with dotcom woman. I hadn’t asked but he brought it up because it had gone well. My heart sank and I think he could tell. He also told me that I couldn’t spend the night as he had to get up early and again I had a look of disappointment across my face. For those who don’t know me, my face is an open book and my feelings are often visible in my eyes.

We finished dinner and found a parking ticket on his car. He decided we should go back to his place instead of mine. Our foreplay started in his dinning room and he pulled out a chair and sat me down, pulled off my new lacy undies that was given to me for my birthday by Sara and I wrapped my legs around his back. Thank you, Sara. He did not disappoint and before long I’d had several orgasms. He pulled me onto him while he was kneeling and kept the momentum going.

We then transitioned to standing and making out in the archway, he grabbed the frame and I took my turn kneeling. When he had his orgasm I stood and we made out again and this time he kissed my shoulder. We soon learned that my shoulder was an erogenous zone and I actually climaxed from his tongue kissing my collarbone. We later tried the same spot to find that I have to be ramped up for that spot to become erogenous. He continued to kiss my neck and shoulder while fondling me and I literally had an orgasm that lasted over a minute straight, maybe longer, in fact it felt like forever and it was incredible.

We headed off to the bedroom and Ray was excited by our elaborate foreplay. We continued our lovemaking and this time he discovered my G spot and we both enjoyed that sensation for a while forcing me to grab hold of his headboard. We moved into the missionary position and when he came he grunted which always turns me on.

Afterwards we talked in bed about my capacity for orgasms and how most women can’t handle having their G spots touched for any length of time. I’m still curious about these poor women who can barely have one orgasm during sex. Perhaps they are just with the wrong man.

As we laid there, he continued to talk and I drifted into my happy place. He stopped and asked if we needed to talk about this. Hmmm? “Talk about what?” I asked. “About you falling in love. If so we need to turn on the light.” Again I was dumbfounded as I was still in my happy place and my mind was not functioning at one hundred percent after that many orgasms. I guess you could call them mind-blowing as I was feeling rather stupid.

Ray flipped on the light and started talking about where he was in life, what kind of man he was, obstacles he’s overcome and how he was not in a falling-in-love-kinda place. It felt like a lecture and here I was naked sitting in his bed trying to figure out why we were having this conversation. He realized that I wasn’t exactly participating in the conversation and asked me what I thought. I was still having trouble focusing and my thoughts were scattered. “Um, I’m not falling in love and if I were standing on that cliff, this conversation has made me move twenty steps back away from that edge.”

He continued his speech and again my eyes glazed over. When he finally changed topics, I joined the conversation about our parents and the loss of his mother.

We got dressed and he drove me back to my sanctuary, my home, my little apartment with brightly colored walls and my two cats.  I went to bed and was sadden by the conversation and I knew that everything was about to change.